{"id":110,"date":"2025-09-22T15:24:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-22T15:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/upworthy\/2025\/09\/22\/experienced-wedding-planner-shares-5-signs-that-absolutely-mean-the-couple-will-get-divorced\/"},"modified":"2025-09-22T15:24:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-22T15:24:00","slug":"experienced-wedding-planner-shares-5-signs-that-absolutely-mean-the-couple-will-get-divorced","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodinc.com\/qa-upworthy\/2025\/09\/22\/experienced-wedding-planner-shares-5-signs-that-absolutely-mean-the-couple-will-get-divorced\/","title":{"rendered":"Experienced wedding planner shares 4 signs that absolutely mean the couple will get divorced"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A wedding planner on<a data-linked-post=\"2658651267\" href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/women-on-tiktok-are-standing-in-for-adult-children\" target=\"_blank\"> TikTok<\/a> claims that she can predict whether a couple will get <a data-linked-post=\"2660493488\" href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/effects-of-divorce-on-children\" target=\"_blank\">divorced<\/a> by noticing subtle clues during the wedding planning and ceremony. <\/p><p>These minor problems are <a data-linked-post=\"2667353293\" href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/here-are-10-red-flags-employees-should-look-out-for-when-starting-a-new-job\" target=\"_blank\">red flags<\/a> that point to larger, more profound issues happening with the couple. While it may seem like these reasons are signs of unavoidable doom, they can also act as a warning for couples everywhere: if these signs appear in your <a data-linked-post=\"2672189706\" href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/how-to-break-up-with-someone-maturely\" target=\"_blank\">relationship<\/a>, get help.<\/p><p>\u201cI can tell a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.good.is\/maid-of-honor-terrible-speech\" target=\"_blank\">bride and groom<\/a> that&#8217;s going to get divorced before they even get married,\u201d Robin Yarusso says in a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@birdie1216\/video\/7543020520640498975?embed_source=121374463%2C121468991%2C121439635%2C121749182%2C121433650%2C121404359%2C121497414%2C121477481%2C121351166%2C121811500%2C121860360%2C121487028%2C121679410%2C121331973%2C120811592%2C120810756%2C121885509%3Bnull%3Bembed_card_play&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.upworthy.com%2Fr%2Fentryeditor%2F2674011272%23distribution&amp;referer_video_id=7543020520640498975\" target=\"_blank\">TikTok video<\/a>. \u201cSo I&#8217;ve planned like 100 weddings and probably like 25, 30 proposals, and there are certain things that happen that I&#8217;ve seen time and time again with my brides and grooms that have divorced later on.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@birdie1216\/video\/7543020520640498975\" data-video-id=\"7543020520640498975\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@birdie1216\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@birdie1216?refer=embed\">@birdie1216<\/a> <p>Signs that the marriage will fail during wedding planning <a title=\"wedding\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/wedding?refer=embed\">#wedding<\/a> <a title=\"weddingplanning\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/weddingplanning?refer=embed\">#weddingplanning<\/a> <\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Birdie\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7543020506841189150?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Birdie<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n<h2>1. Cake smash equals catastrophe<\/h2><p>\u201cIf you smash cake, I don&#8217;t know what it represents, but for some reason, none of my brides and grooms that did that are still together,\u201d Yarusso says in the video. <\/p><p>Yarusso told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.today.com\/life\/relationships\/wedding-planner-divorce-signs-rcna229054\" target=\"_blank\">TODAY.com<\/a> that if the couple &#8220;didn&#8217;t agree on it, didn\u2019t discuss it, or if one said \u2018no\u2019 and it still happens, then it\u2019s disrespectful. If the bride looks upset, like \u2018Oh my gosh,\u2019 and you didn\u2019t want that to happen\u2014I haven\u2019t had a single couple survive that.\u201d<\/p><p>Kevin Thompson, a pastor who has done countless weddings, says that when one person shoves the cake in the other&#8217;s face unexpectedly, it shows <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kevinathompson.com\/how-i-predict-divorce-based-on-the-wedding-cake\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>four questionable <\/u><\/a>characteristics: pride, force, revenge, and contempt. All of these characteristics don\u2019t bode well for a happy marriage. <\/p><h2>2. Sneaky expenditures<\/h2><p>\u201cSo if I have a bride that&#8217;s calling me on the side, being like, &#8216;Let&#8217;s add this to the flowers. Don&#8217;t tell Jim. Let&#8217;s do that.&#8217; Don&#8217;t. The don&#8217;t-tells, those. Those people end up getting divorced,\u201d Yarusso says in the video.<\/p><p>When a bride or groom makes secret financial arrangements behind the other\u2019s back, it says two terrible things: they<a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/financial-disagreements-strong-predictor-divorce-233000764.html\" target=\"_blank\"><u> disagree on money<\/u><\/a>\u2014a major predictor of divorce\u2014and that they can\u2019t be trusted. If they\u2019re lying about money, what else are they being dishonest about?<\/p><p class=\"shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image image-crop-custom\" data-np-autofill-form-type=\"other\" data-np-checked=\"1\" data-np-watching=\"1\">        <figure class=\"rkv-rebelmouse\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/qa-upworthy\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/09\/origin-34723.png\" alt=\"brides, sad bride, bridal party, mad bride, wedding trouble, \" \/><figcaption>A bride is crying at her wedding.  <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/angela7\/6970575530\/in\/photolist-6bZM9H-2jcMXto-594Q31-2jcHUDE-5AHm8E-58ZEmg-5jRJFd-oUJfn-594RsA-594Qpf-594QC5-594Nch-58ZDmx-594R5y-594Ny7-58ZDxx-58ZEPa-gSrjV-5o5VUv-58ZEex-594QxW-58ZDJ6-oUJbt-58ZFTr-8g4A4D-58ZFvB-58ZDPz-9Y969P-594RfL-594Rab-594QTE-58ZCM8-eZTxec-594NLw-58ZFjT-58ZEpP-594Pxh-58ZDrP-4Vx4YX-8174Z-58ZE8B-SmHbY-26snRe-awzEom-7gapcX-bBY2fJ-f18SfC-n7zFG-6AsiBx-2qrczRJ\" rel=\"nofollow\">via Canva\/Photos<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>                        <\/p><h2>3. Pushy mother-in-laws are a curse<\/h2><p>\u201cIf your mother or the groom&#8217;s mother, the bride&#8217;s mother, whichever one it is, if that mother is overstepping where she shouldn&#8217;t and her child doesn&#8217;t check her, it usually leads to problems in the marriage,\u201d Yarusso says in the video.<\/p><p>Toxic family members can put <a href=\"https:\/\/divorce.com\/blog\/causes-of-divorce\/\" target=\"_blank\"><u>a significant strain<\/u><\/a> on relationships. When spouses can&#8217;t balance their home life with their outside family, trouble is bound to happen.<\/p><h2>4. Incompetent, uncaring husband<\/h2><p>\u201cAnd then last is the husband who doesn&#8217;t care about the wedding,&#8221; Yarusso says in the video. &#8220;And I don&#8217;t mean like, \u2018Oh, honey, it&#8217;s your big day, you pick whatever flowers you want.\u2019 I mean, his one job was to pick the DJ, and we&#8217;re a week before the wedding, and he hasn&#8217;t gotten that done. That husband is completely checked out.\u201d <\/p><p>When one partner doesn\u2019t carry their own weight, that puts an undue burden on the other, which can lead to powerful resentment, and eventually, divorce.<\/p><p><br \/><\/p><p class=\"shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image image-crop-custom\">        <figure class=\"rkv-rebelmouse\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/qa-upworthy\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/09\/origin-34724.png\" alt=\"wedding, just married, newlyweds, wedding photo, couple kissing\" \/><figcaption>A couple with au00a0   <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/angela7\/6970575530\/in\/photolist-6bZM9H-2jcMXto-594Q31-2jcHUDE-5AHm8E-58ZEmg-5jRJFd-oUJfn-594RsA-594Qpf-594QC5-594Nch-58ZDmx-594R5y-594Ny7-58ZDxx-58ZEPa-gSrjV-5o5VUv-58ZEex-594QxW-58ZDJ6-oUJbt-58ZFTr-8g4A4D-58ZFvB-58ZDPz-9Y969P-594RfL-594Rab-594QTE-58ZCM8-eZTxec-594NLw-58ZFjT-58ZEpP-594Pxh-58ZDrP-4Vx4YX-8174Z-58ZE8B-SmHbY-26snRe-awzEom-7gapcX-bBY2fJ-f18SfC-n7zFG-6AsiBx-2qrczRJ\" rel=\"nofollow\">via Canva\/Photos<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>                        <\/p><p>Sometimes, minor disagreements that people have before they\u2019ve taken the plunge can magnify greatly shortly thereafter, either due to a change in the nature of the relationship or the revealing power of time. So, it\u2019s best for couples looking to get married to take Yarusso\u2019s words seriously. She may not be a therapist, but she\u2019s seen how couples work together first-hand, and nothing puts a stress test on a marriage quite like a wedding. <\/p><p>If you\u2019re experiencing problems on the road to saying, \u201cI do,\u201d chances are they may get worse after the cake is in the freezer and the dress is put in storage.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If he smashes the cake in her face, it\u2019s all downhill from there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":187629,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"alternative_headline":"","alternative_description":"","alternative_featured_image":0,"rkv_announcement":{"visible":true},"apple_news_api_created_at":"","apple_news_api_id":"","apple_news_api_modified_at":"","apple_news_api_revision":"","apple_news_api_share_url":"","apple_news_cover_media_provider":"image","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_cover_video_id":0,"apple_news_cover_video_url":"","apple_news_cover_embedwebvideo_url":"","apple_news_is_hidden":"","apple_news_is_paid":"","apple_news_is_preview":"","apple_news_is_sponsored":"","apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":[],"apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"partner_boost":false,"hide_partner_badge":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[208,382,146],"tags":[135,1374,1375,1376,1377,1378,1379,1380,1381,1382,1383,1384,1385],"sponsor":[],"rkv-people-shadow":[215],"class_list":["post-110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-family","category-modern-families","category-popular","tag-popular_source-pageview","tag-cake-smash-disaster","tag-contempt","tag-couples-dont-last","tag-divorce-predictors","tag-incompetant-husbands","tag-marriage-strain-from-family","tag-secret-expenditures-lead","tag-wedding-planner","tag-wedding-planner-divorce","tag-wedding-planner-predictions","tag-wedding-stress-test","tag-weddings"],"edit_link":null,"apple_news_notices":[],"rkv_author":{"id":215,"name":"Tazreena Sajjad","display_name":"Tazreena Sajjad","first_name":"","last_name":"","nickname":"","url":"https:\/\/goodinc.com\/qa-upworthy\/author\/tazreena-sajjad\/","link":"https:\/\/goodinc.com\/qa-upworthy\/author\/tazreena-sajjad\/","description":"","slug":"tazreena-sajjad","avatar_urls":[],"email":false},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.1 (Yoast SEO v27.1.1) - 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