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When my sister’s dog, Junior, was on this side of the Rainbow Bridge, I was one of his favorite people<\/a>. This dog would get full body wags every time I came around, and we’d spend most of the day cuddled up with each other. Now my dog, Cocolina, behaves in the same way whenever my sister comes to visit. But what goes into a dog deciding<\/a> who their favorite person is? Spoiler, it’s not always the person they live with. <\/p>\n

Like humans, animals have their own personalities<\/a>. You might rescue a dog thinking it will be the perfect companion, only to have the furry adoptee spend every waking moment following your partner around. You could spend hundreds of dollars on vet checkups, new harnesses, treats, and all the squeaky dog toys you can find, but that still won’t be enough to convince a dog to love you. Instead of showering the giver of treats with kisses, they make goo-goo eyes at the pet sitter. It turns out they have their reasons. <\/p>\n

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Since our canine friends can’t talk, we have to rely on the experts to explain what the deal is with how dogs pick their favorite human. Carol Erickson, a Pennsylvania SPCA animal advocate, gave a brief interview with CBS News Philadelphia<\/a> to explain her take on how dogs determine their bestest, most favorite person. <\/p>\n

“What it comes down to for all dogs is they decide their very favorite family member by who gives the most consistent, high-quality attention, play, and physical affection: ear rubs, scratches, that sort of thing. Dogs get positive associations from being around people who consistently provide positive experiences, including treats, meals, play that they enjoy, and remember also that early association in those first six months can influence who a dog may like better later on,” she tells the outlet. <\/p>\n

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Rover<\/em> backs up Erickson’s claim<\/a> that the first six months are crucial in determining who will become the dog’s favorite person later in life. The website says, “Many dogs bond hardest to whoever cares for them during their key socialization period, which occurs between birth and six months.” However, they later note that dogs can still be socialized appropriately even as adults. <\/p>\n

The dog-sitting website also explains that it’s not uncommon for people who are not the dog’s primary caregiver to be their favorite person. Pointing out that physical affection is vital to dogs, if the mailman gives out head scratches daily but the owner doesn’t, the mailman may become the dog’s favorite person. While physical affection and treats go a long way for some pooches, those aren’t the only things that get puppy eyes melting with love. <\/p>\n

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“While positive experiences play a big role, a dog\u2019s favorite person isn\u2019t always just the one holding the treat bag. Dogs also respond to emotional connection, tone of voice, and even body language. Their preferences are shaped by a mix of familiarity, trust, and how well a person understands their needs,” explains Elle Vet Sciences.<\/a> They later add, “Dogs also take emotional cues from us. If a person is stressed, loud, or inconsistent, a dog may be less likely to form a deep bond with them. On the other hand, someone who offers reassurance and stability often earns the title of ‘favorite’ without even realizing it.”<\/p>\n

In short, if you want to be your dog’s bestie, being consistent with affection, actions, and even training and grooming will get you there a lot faster than treats alone. Dogs aren’t trying to be persnickety; just like humans, they enjoy being around people who show them that they enjoy their company\u2014and maybe some treats. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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