{"id":162,"date":"2025-09-16T11:43:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-16T11:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/upworthy\/2025\/09\/16\/millennials-bond-over-boomer-parents-viral-gramnesia-ex1\/"},"modified":"2025-09-16T11:43:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-16T11:43:00","slug":"millennials-bond-over-boomer-parents-viral-gramnesia-ex1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodinc.com\/qa-upworthy\/2025\/09\/16\/millennials-bond-over-boomer-parents-viral-gramnesia-ex1\/","title":{"rendered":"Boomers often forget what it&#8217;s like having young kids. Millennials call it &#8216;gramnesia.&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If there&#8217;s one thing we&#8217;re really good at in 2025, it&#8217;s giving specific phenomena a catchy, viral name. It\u2019s funny how once a sort of abstract experience gets a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/hurkle-durkling-scottish-self-care-ex1\" target=\"_blank\">name attached to it<\/a>, it suddenly becomes much easier to understand and relate to. The Internet\u2014and primarily <a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/tag\/parenting-tiktok\" target=\"_self\"><u>TikTok<\/u><\/a>\u2014has been great for that. Sure, things get out of hand quite easily (like the overuse of \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/tag\/therapy-speak\" target=\"_self\"><u>therapy speak<\/u><\/a>\u201d), but there has also been quite a lot of validation and meaningful conversations that have spawned from these overnight buzzwords.<\/p><p>Case and point: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/tag\/boomer-parents\" target=\"_self\"><u>\u201cGramnesia<\/u><\/a>.\u201d<\/p><p>\u201cGramnesia,\u201d which combines the words \u201cgrandparent\u201d and \u201camnesia,\u201d has been <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/beyondthebump\/comments\/cvsl65\/i_swear_people_forget_what_babys_are_like\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>popping up on Reddit discussions <\/u><\/a>for a while now, though the coiner of the term seems unknown. But only recently has it been really gaining traction.<\/p><p>Back in June of 2024, Maryland-based therapist and mom <a href=\"https:\/\/www.treehousetherapyllc.com\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>Allie McQuaid<\/u><\/a>, really brought \u201cgramnesia\u201d to the forefront of the conversation when she made an Instagram video all about it.<\/p><p>\u201cI just heard this term called \u2018gramnesia\u2019 when grandparents forget what it\u2019s really like having young kids and I can\u2019t stop thinking about how accurate it is,\u201d she said in the clip.<\/p><p>In her caption, McQuaid shared how so many of her clients would get \u201cslammed\u201d by their parents about how different (i.e. \u201ceasier\u201d) raising kids was for them whenever they brought their own children around.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram wp-block-embed-instagram\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/C74kRLbOoop\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:550; line-height:18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div><\/div><div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\"><div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: auto;\"> <div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div><\/div><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/blockquote><script async src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n                    <p>These hyperbolic memories are, as McQuaid put it, so \u201cridiculous\u201d that they&#8217;ve clearly \u201cforgot[ten] what it was really like in those early years of parenthood.\u201d<\/p><h2>Some examples of \u201cgramnesia\u201d statements could be:<\/h2><p>\u201cYou never had tantrums when you were a kid\u201d<\/p><p>\u201cI potty trained you before you were one\u201d<\/p><p>\u201cYou were always happy to eat whatever we fed you.\u201d<\/p><p>\u201cYou were spanked and turned out fine!\u201d<\/p><p>Clearly, McQuaid\u2019s video struck a chord, because it wasn\u2019t long before people begin chiming in with their own stories of gramnesia:<\/p><p><em>\u201cMy MIL, over the years, loved to act like her children were perfect growing up. I love to tell the stories of her son (my hubby) getting into all kinds of trouble as a kid &#8211; oh the shock.\u201d<\/em><\/p><p><em>\u201c*Baby makes any kind of noise* Grandma: &#8220;Oh they must be teething!&#8221; Me : &#8220;Umm she&#8217;s 4 months old, She isn&#8217;t teething yet &#8211; just has feelings and is you know &#8211; A BABY&#8221; grandma: \u2018well my kids had all their teeth by 4 months\u2019  \u201d<\/em><\/p><p><em>\u201c5 months old and not sleeping through the night? Did you try rice cereal? Baby not walking ? Rice cereal. Baby not in college yet? Have you tried rice cereal?\u201d<\/em><\/p><p><em>\u201cUgh my dad literally just said this to me last week\u2026 \u2018I don\u2019t remember you guys having this many tantrums\u2019\u2026   right after my boys were upset.\u201d<\/em><\/p><p><em><br \/><\/em><\/p><p class=\"shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image\">        <figure class=\"rkv-rebelmouse\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/qa-upworthy\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/09\/origin-34751.png\" alt=\"parenting, conflict, kids, parents, gramnesia\" \/><figcaption>These moments may be harder to remember. Image via Canva<\/figcaption><\/figure>                        <\/p><h2>McQuaid posited some theories as to why gramnesia exists in the first place.<\/h2><p>One is that it could simply be the natural tendency to have a cognitive bias which puts past experiences in a more positive light than they actually were, aka having \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/integrativelifecenter.com\/treatment-programs\/euphoric-recall-what-it-is-and-how-to-deal-with-it\/\" target=\"_blank\">euphoric recall<\/a>.\u201d As she told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/gramnesia-grandparents-millennials_l_66e1d5ede4b055a0b2a4c7ca?utm_source=flipboard&amp;utm_content=topic%2Fparenting\" target=\"_blank\"><u><em>Huffpost<\/em><\/u><\/a>, we tend to have a \u201cfoggier memory of how things truly were\u201d as we get older, \u201cespecially if the experience we had was particularly difficult or even traumatic.\u201d<\/p><p>Plus, the first few years of parenthood are often such a blur anyway. McQuaid herself admitted that \u201dI even have a hard time remembering the first year of motherhood, and that was only four years ago.\u201d<\/p><p>In addition, McQuaid theorized that gramnesia exists because previous generations \u201cwere not given space to express emotions or indicate that they were struggling to adjust to motherhood.\u201d Honestly, a sound hypothesis.<\/p><h2>And for the frustrated folks itching to confront their boomer parents about this, McQuaid suggests picking your battles.<\/h2><p>\u201cCheck your capacity if you have the space or energy to even consider bringing up your frustration with your parents,\u201d she told <em>Huffpost<\/em>. \u201cYou are likely in the throes of parenting right now, and maybe all you can do is smile and nod after hearing for the 100th time how \u2018you were never like this.\u2019\u201d<\/p><p>However, if you are determined to bring it up and set the record straight, McQuaid suggests to actually keep it centered around you and how the situation makes you feel, rather than combating their memories. So, instead of saying, \u201cThat\u2019s NOT how it happened!\u201d try something like, \u201cWhen you said that I never did X when I was Y\u2019s age, it makes me question how well I\u2019m doing as a parent.\u201d Probably easier said than done, to be sure.<\/p><p>And while this sore spot might never come to a full resolution for a lot of millennial parents, at least take some solace in knowing that you\u2019re not crazy, nor are you alone. <\/p><p class=\"shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image\">        <figure class=\"rkv-rebelmouse\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/qa-upworthy\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/09\/origin-34752.png\" alt=\"parenting, parenting life, parents, babies, having children\" \/><figcaption>You&#039;ll probably forget the stress of these days too. Image via Canva.<\/figcaption><\/figure>                        <\/p><p><em>This article originally appeared last year. 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