{"id":179,"date":"2025-09-15T17:11:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-15T17:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/upworthy\/2025\/09\/15\/should-i-divorce-my-selfish-husband-ex1\/"},"modified":"2025-09-15T17:11:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-15T17:11:00","slug":"should-i-divorce-my-selfish-husband-ex1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodinc.com\/qa-upworthy\/2025\/09\/15\/should-i-divorce-my-selfish-husband-ex1\/","title":{"rendered":"“You deserve better”: Mom leaves her husband after he refuses to clean up for 6 days straight"},"content":{"rendered":"

Household inequity is getting better in some households. In others, it’s completely out of control. A viral TikTok video<\/a> highlights an extreme version of inequality that many wives and mothers in heterosexual relationships<\/a> face. However, the mom in this story hit her limit and won\u2019t deal with it anymore. Lynalice Bandy, who goes by @5kids5catssomedogstoo<\/a> on TikTok, posted a video that showed her home looking like a disaster<\/a> after she worked six 10-hour days straight while her husband<\/a> did nothing to help.<\/p>

Her time-lapse video shows every room in the house completely trashed, <\/a>with toys, food, and laundry scattered everywhere. “Shampoo on the carpets in the girls’ room, nail polish all over nugget covers, hair, and carpet. Scissors were used to cut hair, the down comforter, the mattress cover, and two nugget covers,” wrote the mom. \u201cI\u2019ve worked six, ten-hour days in a row with only one day off being a sick day,\u201d she captioned the video. \u201cI\u2019d like to pretend I\u2019m not the only person who cleans here, but as you can see\u2026These rooms don\u2019t get much attention<\/a> when I\u2019m not here.”<\/p>


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#divorce<\/a> #parentingfail<\/a> #messyhouse<\/a> #whenwomen<\/a> #depressionanxiety<\/a> #clean<\/a> #satifying<\/a><\/p> \u266c SUN GOES DOWN – Andreas Roehrig<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote>