{"id":234,"date":"2025-09-09T23:52:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-09T23:52:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/upworthy\/2025\/09\/09\/dad-says-this-20-minute-bonding-technique-with-daughter-has-made-a-huge-difference-in-their-relationship\/"},"modified":"2025-09-09T23:52:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-09T23:52:00","slug":"dad-says-this-20-minute-bonding-technique-with-daughter-has-made-a-huge-difference-in-their-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodinc.com\/qa-upworthy\/2025\/09\/09\/dad-says-this-20-minute-bonding-technique-with-daughter-has-made-a-huge-difference-in-their-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Dad says this 20-minute bonding technique with daughter has made &#8216;a huge difference&#8217; in their relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Building a strong parental bond between <a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/dad-cries-at-olivia-concert\" target=\"_blank\">father and daughter<\/a> is all about spending intentional <a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/toddler-restaurant-complaints-ex1\" target=\"_blank\">time together<\/a>. And for dads who work or have limited time during the days to spend with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.good.is\/a-firemans-obituary-ex1\" target=\"_blank\">their daughters<\/a>, the good news is that a strong relationship can be achieved in less than half an hour.<\/p><p>An enthusiastic dad <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/daddit\/comments\/1nazpto\/bonding_technique_with_my_3_year_old_has_made_a\/\" target=\"_blank\">shared<\/a> about how a 20-minute bonding technique &#8220;made a huge difference&#8221; with his daughter on the Reddit thread, r\/daddit. &#8220;I never really felt bonding and I even felt my child was a bit scared of me or just had a preferred parent. (Still does),&#8221; he explained. &#8220;But consciously doing this and being purposeful has been a game changer there&#8217;s last 2 months when she turned 3.&#8221;<\/p><p>The bonding technique comes from psychiatrist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/doc_amen\/\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Daniel Amen, MD<\/a>. Called &#8220;Special Time,&#8221; the dad describes it as 20-30 minutes of engagement with a simple purpose: &#8220;To foster a stronger connection with children by providing undivided attention and positive interaction.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram wp-block-embed-instagram\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DNOwJ1oyY2s\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:500px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DNOwJ1oyY2s\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; 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border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: auto;\"> <div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div><\/div><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/blockquote><script async src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n                    <p>&#8220;This is probably one of the most effective parenting strategies I&#8217;ve given parents, is spend 20 minutes a day with your child. Do something with them <em>they<\/em> wanna do,&#8221; Dr. Amen explained in a video on &#8220;Special Time.&#8221; &#8220;And during that time, no commands, no questions, no directions. It&#8217;s just<em> time<\/em>.&#8221;<\/p><p>Dr. Amen also adds that the benefits are endless. They include: increased closeness, improved communication, and a more positive relationship with the child.<\/p><p class=\"shortcode-media shortcode-media-youtube\">        \n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"This Parenting Mistake Ruins Your Kids Brains! 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My daughter will just come up to me and say what she wants to do. &#8216;Dada, chase&#8217; and we&#8217;ll chase each other around the house, or &#8216;Dada hide&#8217; obv is hide and seek. Which is hilarious with a 3 yo. Her idea of hiding at one point was laying as still as possible on the floor with her head in a diaper box.&#8221;<\/p><p>Another dad added, &#8220;Yeah, being mindful of this and making time for it helps so much. I&#8217;m out of the house 55+ hours per week with work and my wife is SAHM, so he&#8217;s way more attached to her than to me. But this morning I lay under a table in his room for like 30 minutes being the &#8216;cupboard troll,&#8217; demanding he pays tolls to receive items from the cupboard.&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram wp-block-embed-instagram\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DF0QloYM5ql\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:500px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DF0QloYM5ql\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; 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border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: auto;\"> <div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div><\/div><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/blockquote><script async src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n<p>Dr. Amen&#8217;s &#8220;Special Time&#8221; technique is &#8220;deceptively easy,&#8221; parenting coach <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/keeshawscott\/\" target=\"_blank\">Keesha Scott<\/a>, MS, tells <em>Upworthy<\/em>. &#8220;It works because kids don\u2019t just want attention, they want attuned attention. When a parent sets everything else aside, the child feels deeply seen, and that sense of connection becomes the foundation of trust.&#8221;<\/p><p>&#8220;Special Time&#8221; also lays a great foundation to build a secure attachment. &#8220;A secure attachment allows individuals to move forward in the world feeling safe, empowered, and confident,&#8221; Reesa Morala, LMFT, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and owner of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.embracerenewaltherapy.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Embrace Renewal Therapy<\/a>, tells <em>Upworthy<\/em>. &#8220;When you know that someone is in your corner with unconditional positive regard, your body is more willing to try new things and expand themselves because they know someone will be there to support and champion them.&#8221;<\/p><p><span><\/span>For parents looking to try out &#8220;Special Time,&#8221; it doesn&#8217;t take much forethought. &#8220;That could mean playing a game, telling a story, or just sitting together in a way that feels relaxed. 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