{"id":283,"date":"2025-09-05T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-05T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/upworthy\/2025\/09\/05\/dr-becky-rude-kids-ex1\/"},"modified":"2025-09-05T17:00:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-05T17:00:00","slug":"dr-becky-rude-kids-ex1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodinc.com\/qa-upworthy\/2025\/09\/05\/dr-becky-rude-kids-ex1\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Millennial parent whisperer&#8217; reveals 3 simple phrases that stop rude kids in their tracks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>At some point, every parent has to deal with a child who talks back and makes rude comments. It\u2019s a normal part of growing up. But it\u2019s a parent&#8217;s job to stop it before it becomes an everyday behavior and an ingrained part of their personality.<br \/><\/p><p>Stopping rude behavior can be especially difficult for parents because it&#8217;s easy to get upset and escalate the situation when their children talk back or act rudely.<\/p><p>The good news is that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/parenting-tips\" target=\"_self\">Dr. Becky <\/a>is around to show us how to handle these situations like an adult. Dr. Becky Kennedy is a popular social media clinical psychologist who founded <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodinside.com\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cGood Inside,\u201d<\/a> a program that helps support parents and children through every developmental phase. She&#8217;s been called the &#8220;millennial parent whisperer,&#8221; a fitting nickname she earned for her spot-on advice.<\/p><p>Dr. Becky shared 3 lines parents can use to respond to rudeness and talking back. \u201cThese will help you de-escalate the situation and immediately set you on the path for a positive interaction with your kid,\u201d she says at the start of her video.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram wp-block-embed-instagram\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/C_0692YB07h\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:500px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/C_0692YB07h\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:550; line-height:18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div><\/div><div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\"><div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: auto;\"> <div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div><\/div><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/blockquote><script async src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Line 1:<\/strong> \u201cI hear you, and you must be really upset to say something like that to me.\u201d<\/p><p><strong>Line 2:<\/strong> \u201cLook, all I\u2019m saying is I know you\u2019re a good kid, even when you say some not so good things.\u201d<\/p><p><strong>Line 3:<\/strong> \u201cI know there\u2019s another way you can say that to me. Do you want to try again?\u201d<\/p><p>At first, a lot of folks may think that Dr. Becky is asking us to be too permissive of a kid who mouths off. But she has another perspective. \u201cNow, I know what you might be thinking: \u2018Am I just kind of permitting this rudeness?&#8217;\u201d she says. \u201cNo! You are acting like an adult.\u201d She says the key is avoiding being pulled into a power struggle or escalation of rudeness.<\/p><p>\u201cYou are not being pulled into a power struggle or rudeness escalation. Yes, it might feel good in the moment to say something like, \u2018You can\u2019t talk to me like that, you\u2019re so disrespectful, no iPad tonight!\u2019 But we know if we give rudeness back to our kid, they are just going to give more rudeness back to us. That is so ineffective and we have to be the adult. So try one of those lines and let me know how it goes,\u201d Dr. Becky said.<\/p><p class=\"shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image\">        <figure class=\"rkv-rebelmouse\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/qa-upworthy\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/09\/origin-167.gif\" alt=\"rude child, child sticking out tongue, Dr. becky\" \/><figcaption>Screaming The Help GIF  <a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/tantrum-zglFPxjeRbdm0\" rel=\"nofollow\">Giphy<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>                        <\/p><p>The key question for parents to consider in this situation is: Am I reacting or responding to my child\u2019s behavior? Dr. Becky believes we should respond to the situation calmly and redirect the child\u2019s behavior.<\/p><p>One commenter put Dr. Becky\u2019s advice into action and had a great result.<\/p><p>\u201cThis absolutely works! My son said something awful to me the other morning while getting ready for school. I thought of you , took a deep breath, and said, \u2018Wow, you must be really upset to have said that to me\u2019 and he just nodded and said, \u2018I am.\u2019 We hugged, he even apologized and we connected,\u201d A commenter wrote.<\/p><p>A fellow therapist, <a href=\"https:\/\/claudialuiz.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Claudia Luiz<\/a>, explained the psychological concept behind Dr. Becky\u2019s advice a bit further.<\/p><p>\u201cThis is what psychoanalysis calls \u2018fusion.\u2019 When the bad is fused with good, it neutralizes toxic interactions. Fusion is hard to achieve. Negative feels eclipse the living, positive ones, leading to \u2018rudeness.\u2019 To get more \u2018fused\u2019 you start by processing your impatience with your own negative feelings. You can learn to appreciate why it\u2019s hard to dislike and feel angry at your children with fusion to feel less intense or disregulated. With fusion, you can be more chill,\u201d Dr. Luiz wrote.<\/p><p class=\"shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image image-crop-3x2\">        <figure class=\"rkv-rebelmouse\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/good-worldwide.go-vip.net\/qa-upworthy\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2025\/09\/origin-78229.jpg\" alt=\"rude kids, dr becky, raising goods kids, kid acting out, gentle parenting, parenting tips\" \/><figcaption>A kid sticking their tongue out  <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=HqFfX0A8UAc\" rel=\"nofollow\">Photo credit: Canva<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>                        <\/p><p>Dr. Becky\u2019s advice is valuable because most parents would have a knee-jerk reaction to their child being rude and attempt to punish them or correct them in a harsh manner. However, Dr. Becky says that it\u2019s best to diffuse the situation instead and that will make it less likely for the child to be rude because they aren\u2019t getting the response they want. But what they are getting is something more, a chance to connect with a parent and an open, safe space to share their feelings without having to mask them in hostility.<\/p><p>Similarly, Dr. Becky has advised parents against putting too much energy into &#8220;fixing&#8221; things for their kids, saying &#8220;it&#8217;s not our job to make kids happy.&#8221; Instead, she suggests to essentially hold space for whatever discomfort or frustration the child is experiencing in the moment. This could mean literally sitting next to them, and offering them reassuring words like &#8220;I&#8217;m so glad you&#8217;re talking to me about this\/ I believe you\/tell me more.&#8221; And then, the hard part\u2014not doing anything else. <\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram wp-block-embed-instagram\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DHoP8GAR6SI\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:500px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DHoP8GAR6SI\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; 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And often, as Dr. Becky&#8217;s tips illustrate, a lot of it comes down with being able to &#8220;tolerate distress&#8221; ourselves as parents. Find even more expert-backed suggestions on how to do that by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/drbeckyatgoodinside\/\" target=\"_blank\">following Dr. Becky on Instagram<\/a>. <\/p><p><em>This article originally appeared last year. 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