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13 everyday idioms that make zero sense until you know where they come from

Sweating like a pig? Pigs don’t sweat!

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I’ve always really liked cliches, idioms, proverbs, and common phrases we like to use over and over. They can get repetitive at times, but they’re crucial tools in communication. They allow us to convey so much meaning in so few words—a commonly understood shorthand that can get complex points across quickly.

The only problem is that many of the most popular idioms in common use date back hundreds of years. In that time, they’ve either become outdated or seen their words adopt new meanings. In some cases the idioms have been shortened or reversed, losing important context. So when someone tells you to “bite the bullet,” you may inherently know what they mean—but if you really stop and think about it, you have no idea why it means what it means.

If you’re a word nerd like me, you’ll be absolutely fascinated by the origin and evolution of some of these common idioms, and how they came to mean what they mean today.

1. Sick as a dog / Working like a dog

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Ever have a cold and tell someone you’re “sicker than a dog?” Kind of rude to dogs, in my opinion, and a little strange. I’ve had dogs my whole life and can’t remember any of them coming down with the flu.

Sick as a dog actually originates hundreds of years ago, if not longer. Some explanations say that in the 1700s, stray dogs were responsible for the spread of many diseases, along with rats and other gutter critters. There are also references as far back as the Bible to dogs eating their own vomit—sounds pretty sick to me.

What about working like a dog? Dogs are the laziest creatures around! For this one you have to remember that dogs as “pleasure pets” is a relatively recent phenomenon. Before that they had to earn their keep by working tirelessly on the farm to herd and protect the animals.

2. Sweating like a pig

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This is an extremely common idiom that we all use and accept. There’s just one problem with it: Pigs don’t sweat!

So…what gives? You might be surprised to hear that ‘sweating like a pig’ actually has nothing to do with farm animals.

According to McGill University: “The term is actually derived from the iron smelting process in which hot iron poured on sand cools and solidifies with the pieces resembling a sow and piglets. Hence ‘pig iron.’ As the iron cools, the surrounding air reaches its dew point, and beads of moisture form on the surface of the ‘pigs.’ Thus, ‘sweating like a pig’ indicates that the ‘pig’ (i.e. iron) has cooled enough to be safely handled. And that’s a ‘pig’ you wouldn’t want to eat.”

3. Bite the bullet

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Biting the bullet refers to sucking it up and doing something hard, something you don’t want to do but is necessary, and accepting the difficult consequences and/or pain that comes with it. But what does that have to do with biting a bullet?

There are different theories on this. One common explanation is that in the olden days it was common for soldiers on the battlefield receiving surgery to bite down on a lead bullet. You’ve probably seen people in movies biting down on a piece of wood or leather strap. Since lead is a softer metal, it would give just a little bit between their teeth and not damage them. So the idiom ‘biting the bullet’ means, “Okay, this is going to suck, just bite down and get through it.”

4. Healthy as a horse

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This one has always confused me. As a layman, it seems like horses are prone to injury and have trouble recovering when they hurt themselves. More research shows that horses can not vomit, which means they are highly at risk for deadly colic episodes. Doesn’t sound super healthy!

The best explanation I can find for healthy as a horse is that, again, in the olden days, horses were symbols of health and strength and vitality. Which checks out—they’re really powerful, majestic creatures.

5. Slept like a baby

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To many parents, this common idiom is rage-inducing. If babies sleep so well, why am I so exhausted all the time?!

Yes, babies are notorious for waking up every few hours or at the first sign of hunger or a dirty diaper. It puts their parents through the wringer (another strange idiom!). But to the outside observer, a sleeping baby is pure bliss. They are so innocent and blissfully unaware of anything going on around them—after all, if they’re not sitting in a dirty diaper they really don’t have too many other things to worry about. Also, despite all their shenanigans, babies do sleep a lot—around 17 hours a day or so. When you put it that way, the idiom starts to make a little sense.

6. Happy as a clam

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Clams are a lot of things. Some people find them delicious, others disgusting. One thing I think we can all agree on is that clams don’t seem particularly happy, which makes this idiom a bit of a conundrum.

The truth is that this phrase is actually derived from the full version: “Happy as a clam at high water.”

At low water, or low tide, clams are exposed to predators. At high tide, they’re safe in deeper water. That’s about as happy as mollusk can get!

7. The proof is in the pudding

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Hey, we all love pudding. But what the heck does this mean? If you’re not familiar, it refers to judging something based on the results it generates—but what that has to do with pudding is a bit of a mystery to most people.

This is another example of a shortened idiom that makes more sense when you read the full, original line: “The proof of the pudding is in the eating.”

According to Dictionary.com it “originated as a reference to the fact that it was difficult to judge if the pudding was properly cooked until it was actually being eaten. In other words, the test of whether it’s done is taking a bite.”

8. Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth

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I’ve always been a big fan of this idiom, which basically means that it’s rude to over-analyze or criticize something you got for free, especially when it was a nice gesture from a friend or loved one.

But here we go with horses again! This phrase likely originated from the fact that you can determine a horse’s age and health by looking at its teeth. So if someone were to give you a horse as a gift, it would be rude to immediately try to see how “good” it was by looking in its mouth.

9. Clean as a whistle

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Whistles are objectively disgusting. They collect spit and germs every time they’re used. I certainly wouldn’t hold them up as a beacon of cleanliness.

So what gives with this idiom? There are several possible explanations that have been proposed.

First, a whistle won’t work, or won’t work very well, if it has debris blocking up its inside. So you can think of “clean” in this case as being “empty or free of clutter.” Another possibility is that, in this idiom, clean refers to sharpness—as in the sharp sound a whistle makes—and that inference has been lost over time.

10. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps

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This phrase is commonly used to describe someone who was “self-made” and built themselves up into a success from nothing. Imagine lying on the floor and hoisting yourself to your feet using only the straps on your boots.

The only problem is…that’s impossible! And that’s exactly the point. This idiom is actually meant to be sarcastic and to imply that “socioeconomic advancement…was an impossible accomplishment,” according to Useless Etymology.

11. Have your cake and eat it too

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Why bother having a cake if you can’t eat it? That’s the mystery of this extremely common idiom or proverb (sometimes worded “you can’t have your cake and eat it, too”)

The explanation is actually really simple. “Have” in this case really means “keep” or “hold onto.” So, in that case, it makes perfect sense that you can’t eat your cake and also still have it. “You can’t have it both ways,” would be another way of saying it. This saying likely began in a letter from Thomas, Duke of Norfolk to Thomas Cromwell in 1538. Thomas wrote,

“A man can not have his cake and eat his cake.”

The quote appeared again in 1546 in A Dialogue Conteinyng the Nomber in Effect of All the Prouerbes in the Englishe Tongue, a book of proverbs by John Heywood:

“Wolde you bothe eate your cake, and have your cake?”

12. Head over heels

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Very rarely do people describe being deeply in love without using this phrase. But it’s a confusing one, because isn’t your head always over your heels? That doesn’t seem to be an extraordinary state of being.

The idiom here has actually been flipped over time for unknown reasons. According to Dictionary.com, the saying originally went “heels over head,” implying upside down. The saying originated in the 1300s, took its “present form” in the 1700s, and took its present meaning in the 1800s.

13. Pushing the envelope

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When I think of radical, risky, or pushing the limits of what’s possible, sliding an envelope across a table just somehow doesn’t quite capture it for me. But an envelope doesn’t have to be just a paper container that you put other paper in. It can actually refer to different parts and practices of an aircraft.

“Push the envelope comes from aeronautics, where it refers to a set of performance limits that may not be safely exceeded,” according to Merriam Webster. Now that’s more like it!

  • British stand-up comic shows what English would sound like if we pronounced silent letters
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    One of the struggles people have with learning English as a second language is the number of silent letters our language uses that don’t seem to have much rhyme or reason. We are certainly not alone in using letters we don’t pronounce, of course—French is famously filled with them, and Danish words apparently make liberal use of them as well. However, there’s no question that silent letters can make language learning confusing for non-native speakers (and often for native speakers as well).

    British comedian Michael McIntyre did a whole bit demonstrating what English would sound like if silent letters weren’t silent. What if we pronounced the “b” in “subtle” or the “h” in “hour” or the “l” in “talk” and “walk”? When we start to pronounce the silent letters, we quickly see how many commonly used words have them, and the effect is both eye-opening and hilarious.

    When you speak a language that uses silent letters, you may not realize that there are languages that don’t. For instance, this comment on the video—”As a Finn, I’m relieved to finally hear properly spoken English”— only makes sense when you know that Finnish is a strictly phonetic language, meaning the letters you see spelled out are pronounced the same way consistently. Spanish is pretty consistent with phonetics, especially compared to English, and Italian and Greek are as well.

    So why does English utilize so many silent letters? As Merriam-Webster states, “Our language is a glutton, and it has taken words from an enormous number of other languages. Since we have words borrowed from languages that have different sound patterns, this results in English speakers pronouncing the words differently than in their languages of origin.”

    For instance, the word mnemonic has a silent “m” at the beginning, but it didn’t used to be silent. The word came to English from the Greek through Latin, and the “m” actually was pronounced in it even as late as the 1800s. Over time, we just dropped it. The same applies to the silent “p” in words like “psychology” and “psalm.” We used to pronounce it, and the French and Germans still do, but we’ve let the “p” go.

    Other words came from Dutch or German with sounds that aren’t standard phonetics in English, like the throat-clearing sound the “ch” combo makes in those languages (technically called a velar fricative). Words like yacht and night have that sound in the languages they came from, but since we don’t do the fricative thing in English, we just dropped it.

    What about the “l” in talk and walk, or would and should? In the former, the “l” affects the sound of the vowel, making it an “ah” sound instead of an “a” sound, as in “tack”. In the latter, the “l” used to be pronounced, at least in the 1500s in refined speech, but at some point got dropped.


    Interestingly, Merriam-Webster says could appears to be an anomaly among the -oulds, though: “It seems likely that could didn’t have the L in either spelling or pronunciation; notice that its root, can doesn’t have an L whereas shall and will (the roots of should and would) do. The thought is that the L in could was later added by analogy—rightly or wrongly—to make it better match with would and should.”

    Funny how language works.

    How about knife and gnome? Apparently, those were pronounced several hundred years ago, but over time, people just stopped. There’s not always a clear logical reason for such changes—sometimes it’s just easier, and when enough people do it, a collective shift in pronunciation occurs. The same applies to the “w” in “wrap” and “write.” They used to be pronounced, but isn’t it just much easier on the lips to not form the “w” first when the sounds just blend together anyway?

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    And yes, we also borrowed from the famously silent-letter-friendly French, as seen in words like receipt, debt, and indict. However, as Merriam-Webster points out, “These words entered English from French in the medieval period, but later scholars recognized their Latin origins and stuck in the missing p, b, and c, just to make the etymological relationship completely explicit. The way we pronounce these words to this day reflects their French heritage (while their spelling reflects their more distant Latin roots).”

    One more fun fact: every letter of the alphabet is silent on occasion in the English language.

    So there you have it. That’s why silent letters abound. English is a mutt language in many ways, which has given us the delightful quirks and inconsistencies that make it a challenge to learn but oh so fun to joke about.

  • Man’s side-splitting monologue on why ‘women don’t want to date’ is frighteningly accurate
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    Man’s side-splitting monologue on why ‘women don’t want to date’ is frighteningly accurate

    “Somebody call a meeting of the council. He knows too much.”

    There’s been a lot of discourse on the state of modern dating and a lot of theories on why it seems harder than ever for people to find connection with romantic partners. Could it be that the achievement and education gaps between men and women are altering the dynamics? Have social media and dating apps broken our brains and hearts? Do we all have unrealistic expectations and unlimited options, leading to never feeling satisfied with anything or anyone?

    Those are all intriguing options, but an alternate theory has recently arisen that’s quickly gaining steam: Maybe being single isn’t as lonely as we think. Maybe being single is actually freaking awesome.

    A guy on TikTok who goes by @gettothepointbro shared a hilarious monologue on why women who have been single for a long time “don’t want to date anymore.” Women say he absolutely nailed it.

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    At first, it might seem like he’s poking fun, either at single women or at the men who can’t seem to win them over. But not so! What he’s done is perfectly captured the joy many people find in being single and, frankly, able to do whatever the hell they want.

    “Some women have been single for so long they don’t date anymore, they grant you access to their peaceful little empire like a reluctant queen handing you a visitor’s badge,” he says. “You text her good morning and she’s already annoyed, like ‘Why are you disturbing the sacred silence of my personal growth journey?’”

    He goes on, “Bro she’s been sleeping diagonally in her bed for three years, she’s not giving up that territory because you opened the door and paid for coffee.”

    “You plan a cute date, she’s thinking ‘That sounds nice but also I could stay home, deep clean my apartment, do a 12 steps skincare routine, order sushi and not have to listen to a man breathe.’”

    “You try to check in emotionally, ‘How are you feeling?’ She’s feeling fantastic because you’re not here.”

    “You’re not competing with other guys. There are no other guys. You’re competing with her weighted blanket, her peace, her cat named Chairman Meow, and the simple joy of not having to share her fries.”

    These are just a few of the best lines from the nearly 2-minute rant, all delivered in the most amazing French accent you can imagine. Please, enjoy:

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    DATING A GIRL WHO IS USED TO BE ALONE CAN BE VERY HARD .

    ♬ original sound – Éros Brousson

    The best thing about the video is the discussion in the comments. Women want to know how this man got access to this top-secret information. The rant is so eerily, frighteningly accurate that women are convinced this French guy is living in their heads. That, or someone’s secretly leaking intel.

    “dammit. somebody call a meeting of the council. he knows too much.”

    “I dont often offer this compliment to the male species but you explained it better than I ever could.”

    “Alright, who’s told him this info??? So exposed right now”

    “The joy of sleeping diagonally across my bed cannot be fully explained.”

    “This is the most accurate profiling I’ve ever heard. You absolutely ailed it.”

    Clearly, we’ve tapped into a real phenomenon here, with users lovingly calling him The Croissant King.


    @erosbrousson

    CAN YOU RELATE LADIES ? THAT’S WHY WE LOVE YOU ❤️

    ♬ original sound – Éros Brousson

    The truth is that many people—both men and women—are disillusioned with the sad state of the dating scene these days. App burnout is a real thing, and meeting new people in real life is a ton of work. So, it’s no surprise that more and more people are just choosing to stay single and enjoy all the perks that come along with it. This is a stark change, especially for women.

    According to FiveThirtyEight, “Women were also more likely than men to say that they weren’t dating because they have other priorities right now.” Priorities like travel, career, friendship, and even just self-care—all things that wind up taking a backseat when people get involved in relationships. It wasn’t too long ago that women of a certain age that were still single were called “spinsters,” but that word has lost a significant amount of power. This new generation of women aren’t embarrassed or ashamed to be single; they’re loving it for exactly all the reasons this video describes.

    This article originally appeared in April. It has been updated.

  • I thought I knew my pal Nikki Glaser. Then she told me her ‘humiliating’ story about Dave Matthews.
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    I thought I knew my pal Nikki Glaser. Then she told me her ‘humiliating’ story about Dave Matthews.

    My very famous friend shares some wisdom we could all take to heart.

    Comedian, actress, and podcaster Nikki Glaser is a force to be reckoned with. Though she was named in Time Magazine as one of 2025’s Most Influential People, her humility never lets it go to her head. She’s obviously hilarious, but in a way that pushes boundaries most didn’t even know existed. As a savage roast-master, she somehow simultaneously puts people at ease while she (sweetly) says the dark things we’re all thinking.

    But it’s herself who she roasts the hardest. She’s unique and thoughtful with her approach to joke-writing, but is also not afraid to dig deep with the constant effort to better her life. She never shies away from getting truly vulnerable, making most people in the room feel like they’re her best friend. Luckily, I actually can call Nikki a friend and can wholeheartedly relay that she’s the kind of person who walks into a room and electrifies it. She’s not only wicked-smart, but she’s the kind of girl’s girl who shows up, no matter how busy she is. (I recall once complaining about the Los Angeles dating pool and within five minutes, she had set me up on a blind date.) She’s as solid as they come and I was thrilled to chat with her for Upworthy about some things I always wanted to know.

    Upworthy: If you remember the movie Sliding Doors—if one thing had gone differently for you—what do you think you’d be doing?

    Glaser: “I like to think that if my voice teacher in high school hadn’t taken my mom aside after one of our lessons and told her I had a bad voice and would never make it in musical theater, that I would have kept singing. And maybe would have been able to pursue a career in music, (not musical theater, she was probably right about that one). But I think that I just assumed she meant all singing. Now, I’m way too many years into singing improperly. I take voice lessons now, but it’s so hard to undo years of poor singing that I could have avoided if I had never given up.”

    Glaser continues with the message she wishes she had received earlier, and wishes to impart on younger generations:

    “In general, I think that if I had just gotten the message at a young age that talent isn’t born, it’s developed, I would have pursued more things that I thought I just didn’t ‘have.’ I was never someone who was naturally talented. Stand-up was literally the first thing in my entire life that I seemed to have a knack for, so I just kept doing it. I’m glad I did, but after I read the book The Talent Code in my 30s, I really understood that all I really needed to do to be talented at anything I wanted to be was put in the work.

    That’s why I always try to tell kids that they can’t give up if they aren’t good at something. You can literally be better than someone who is naturally talented if you just put more hours in than they do, even if they have a huge head start. I never thought of hard work as the best talent of all. I wish that message had been instilled in me more as a kid.”

    Upworthy: To that point, if you had a “second dream”—anything you wanted to be at all—what would it be?

    Glaser: “Besides a singer/songwriter, my true passion would have been to develop a CBD lip gloss line with H&M. JK. I mean, I’m open to it, but in general, I just wish my life’s work involved more animals. Animals are my passion, and traveling as much as I do, I don’t get to bring my dog as much as I’d like. I also would love to get a bird, but I’m never home and you can’t bring them on planes (I haven’t looked into it). That’s the only part of aging and inevitably getting edged out of show business that I’m looking forward to: I’M GONNA GO FULL BIRD LADY.”

    Upworthy: Is there a joke you’ve written that you just can’t seem to make work?

    Glaser: “I have a joke about how fat people are discriminated against, which is a little tricky because I am not fat. And no one wants to hear a skinny person talk about how hard it is to be fat, but at the same time, I notice it and I want fat people to understand that it��s bullshit and I see them. I’m not trying to be a hero or anything. I just know that my body and food issues stem from the way our society treats fat people and I just feel like not enough is being said about it.”

    Upworthy: Who or what makes you consistently laugh?

    Glaser: “As of late… Rachel Feinstein, David Spade, Martin Short as Jiminy Glick, Tim Robinson, and Chris Fleming. I also LOVED Jim Norton’s latest special on YouTube, UNCONCEIVABLE. And I was just texting earlier today with one of my funniest friends, comedian/writer Sean O’Connor, and we both declared that one of the funniest jokes we’ve ever heard was Nick Swardson’s joke: “I took my cat to the veterinarian today because my cat had diarrhea. And the vet was like, ‘What have you been feeding him?’ and I’m like, ‘diarrhea.’”

    Upworthy: Why is Cecily so amazing? (JK, JK. I mean, unless you really WANT to answer.)

    Glaser: You are kind, non-judgmental, hilarious, effervescent, and just one of the best all-time hangs. Not to mention, sexy and cool!

    Upworthy: You have been very open about (and I hate the word journey) your “journey” with mental health. Any tips for people struggling with depression? Like if someone could do “one or two things” to help their mental health, what would you advise?

    Glaser: “I would first try a free meditation app. That’s what I did when I was broke and was in desperation for any kind of relief from my negative thoughts. It really helped. I would also recommend 12-step programs. There’s one for just about everything (if you don’t have an addiction, look into the requirements to qualify for Al-Anon because that’s really a catch-all). The meetings and fellowship are free and you can go on Zoom and just listen if you are scared to share. And no, you don’t have to believe in God to go.”

    Upworthy: Have you ever met someone else who’s famous and completely freaked out?

    Glaser: “Yes, I’m quite an obsessive fan of celebrities who I love, and I can never seem to keep my cool when I meet them. I was a Dave Matthews stan in high school and I met him in 2018 and I humiliated myself by saying the word “sphere” a lot. I don’t even know why. It had nothing to do with the Las Vegas Sphere. It was well before that even existed. Thank God I got to meet him a few years later and act relatively normal.

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    My policy now with these kinds of icons is that I don’t really want to meet them. I just feel like a huge bother when I share how much they mean to me. Unless of course they are new to fame or have faded from the spotlight; then I’m happy to tell them. Like someone like Patrick Schwarzenegger. I ran into him at a party and it was right after the second episode of White Lotus season three, so I knew he wasn’t being hounded yet. I was happy to bother him and gush over how much of an incredible talent he is. As someone who’s not a huge A-lister, I get how much it means when someone tells you they like your work. But someone who is a global pop star doesn’t need me shaking and crying and telling her she saved my life. I don’t want to bother her with my anxiety. She needs to save her energy to write songs, not hug me so I stop convulsing.”

    Upworthy: No matter how popular you get, is there one thing about you that will never change?

    Glaser: “I don’t think people really ever change. I try! I am always holding out hope that I’ll somehow conquer my imposter syndrome and overall low self-esteem. I’m about to start EMDR therapy. We’ll see how that goes! I know that some artists and comedians argue that it serves their work to be depressed or anxious, but I feel like I’ve already mined all of my insecurities for material in the first two decades of my career. I’d like to change into someone who’s more confident, but don’t we all? I don’t want to ever think that I’m better than anyone else, but I’d like to lose the core belief that I’m worse than others.”

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